Roy Hartwick and Duane Dickeson’s relationship was born of deep mutual respect, shared laughter, and a commitment to living life to the fullest. They met at a neighborhood event in 2000, and quickly became inseparable. Both settling in California for retirement —they were ready to embrace a new chapter of relaxation, adventure and giving back.
Their world changed in 2009 when Roy was diagnosed with prostate cancer. It felt like everything had come to a standstill. “When you receive a cancer diagnosis, your whole world turns upside down,” Roy recalls. “You’re totally blindsided and not sure what to do.”
While there were other options nearby, Duane remembered a close friend who had experienced a remarkable recovery after receiving treatment at City of Hope. Encouraged by the quality of care their friend received, Duane reached out and secured a referral for Roy. The moment they walked through City of Hope’s doors, the fear and uncertainty they carried began to lift.
“They assigned us a health advocate who was with us every step of the way,” Roy says. “City of Hope made us feel better the moment we arrived.”
After a successful course of treatment, they thought they could finally breathe easy. But little more than a year later, doctors discovered a large cancerous polyp in Duane’s colon. Without hesitation, the pair knew where to turn. They had seen firsthand the care and compassion at City of Hope, and they agreed it was the best place for Duane’s treatment.
“We found that at City of Hope, you’re not just a case number,” Duane said. “The nurses, doctors, and aides treat you like family. And being a part of that family and seeing how City of Hope is making great strides with research and treatments, we wanted to leave a gift in our estate plans so they can continue their important work for the next generation.”
In 2023, Duane passed away, leaving Roy to carry on the legacy they had built together. Though his partner is gone, Roy remains certain that their gift to City of Hope will help countless others experience the life-saving care that meant so much to them both.